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"What You Focus On Expands" This follows the Law of Attraction very closely. Where Manifestation of your thoughts will lead to the results of those manifested thoughts. So if you always think of the positive results, it is very likely that your end result will be what you hope to achieve.
How many of you noticed that sometimes we worry too much about something bad happening, it happens? This is a typical example of the manifastation of negative thoughts. I want to share with you a true story on the power of manifestation (i.e. What you focus on Expands) that I heard during my Seminars.
This lady grew up in an environment where her father was a womaniser and thus would cheat on her mother. Because of that constant exposure to that situation, she grew fearful that when she got married her husband would be like that. True enough she married someone, and after a few years, her husband did become what she feared the most, a womaniser. During her marriage she always thought of that fear, and because she thought of it, it lead to certain feelings of distrust between the couple, and lead her to act based on those feelings, like saying to her husband "Don't go out and find other women!". This of course lead the husband to grow less trustful of her, and hence he ended up doing what she didn't want him to do. Thanks to her sharing during the seminar, she was able to understand her very own thought process and how she ended up in a situation like hers. With her new found realisation of her inner-self she was now able to be more self-aware of her thoughts, and choose what she wants to focus on to expand, her positivity! Besides this story, I also have my own life experience on what you focus on expands. At one stage in my life about 10 years ago, i went through a stage of depression. Everyday I went through hell, and all I could think was negative thoughts like "no money, no love, no job, no one loves me". True enough the law of attraction kick in, and life was really a downhill then. Imagine only having $70 to eat for one month, and landlords chasing after you for rental (all this in a foreign country). I'm sure most of us will never want to go through life like that. Thankfully, God was kind and with his grace, I was able to meet someone who was able to bring me back to reality, see the beauty in the world and most importantly I was able to move on with life. If you look at these two stories, it follows exactly what my mentor always says:
That also means that if you don't Take Action means you have Zero Results, or in most cases you come out with a Story to justify why you didn't take action. During my journey of discovering my inner-self, the one most fundamental skill I learnt, was the ability to choose my thoughts. Because I was able to choose how I want to think, I could react with positive feelings and thus caused me to act in a positive way such that my results are positive. You may be asking how do I choose my thoughts?"Your Thoughts(T) leads to your Feelings(F) which leads to your Action(A) and you achieve the Results(R) based on that action" T > F > A = R
The first step to growth within yourself, is to be Aware of your thoughts. Only through awareness of your thoughts are you able to examine them, and make the necessary corrections to achieve the results that you want, which in this case is positive results. You will find this difficult at the beginning but I have found it to be life changing. One tip which will help you accelerate this is to ask someone to help you with this, especially someone very close and dear to you. Remember the following:
Success breeds success
Mediocrity breeds mediocrity
Failure breeds failure
Andrew Boey
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"Happy New Year!! - A Child Who Changed The World"
Wishing everyone in my life and people who visit this blog a very Happy New Year! May this year bring great joy and abundance to your life. God will give us the grace to live our life to the fullest. He would want us to be successful in the only way we can so that we can touch as many lives as possible.
Here is a Message for YOU:
Take care and take action for 2009!!
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"The Results of Taking Action" It has been an amazing 2 weeks. Let me share with you my experiences of these 2 weeks, most of it was spent helping my group grow their knowledge on Internet Marketing. Even though it is the Holiday Season, my group was very driven to learn and expand their knowledge.
Some of the group had just gone through the course by Jo-Han, an Internet Marketing Guru (so to speak). Based on what they learnt from his class, there was a need to create a blog to help drive traffic to their other marketing sites as one of the many ways of driving traffic. As I already had knowledge in the fundamentals of setting up websites with Joomla and Wordpress, I felt it was my responsibility as a leader and educator to share that knowledge.
As the saying goes "With Power Comes Responsibility" and everyone knows in this Information age, "Knowledge is Power". I quickly took the initiative (i.e Taking Action)to create a small blogging workshop for my group. At the beginning I was a bit fearful as it was something new I was doing, but I took my Warrior Training and put it to use. "Act in Spite of Fear"!! During the process of creating the workshop and finalising the presentation, I learnt even more things about blogging and how to generate traffic. To be frank, what i covered was really the tip of the ice-berg. The one thing that was driving me, was the fact that I had to deliver great value in the shortest period of time, yet not sacrificing quality for speed. During my session, I learnt a lot of things about event organisation from conducting the workshop. Things I learnt include how well I articulated my presentation to my students, and how well they were able to understand it. How having a very thorough master logistic template is very important. I will take this as a learning experience and improve on it. The feedback from my students will greatly help me improve on the programme and take it to another level. I am really happy that the workshop went well and that I was able to give value to other people. To end off, I want to wish everyone a Happy New Year!!! 2009 is going to be an awesome year, and it will be a new chapter in my life and my new found friends wanting to create more value in their life and people around them.
Warmest Regards,
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I want to share with you a 10min clip (I found from YouTube) from one of my Mentors, T. Harv Eker.
Harv has always inspired me with the energy and spirit that he has. Thanks to his courses I have grown my inner-self in the past year. I have come to the stage, that I am Willing To Do What's Hard. A lot of times, Our Mind Will Take Us Out, because it is in the survival mode to be comforatable in what we do. My journey through that change was to first Be AWARE Of Yourself. Only Through Awareness Can There Be Change. Once you are aware of what your mind is stopping you from succeeding, you can Take The Necessary Action needed to get rid of those negative thoughts.
I have made it a Habit to "Take Action" daily. It is my way of making sure things are done. My main focus for 2009 is building my Internet Marketing Business and creating a team to grow together.
As an ending note:
"Do What Can Be Done Today, and Not Procrastinate It Till Next Time, Otherwise It Will Never Be Done!!"
Aho! To People Who Take Action! Andrew
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General Note:
This week has been a really awesome and productive week. Not only have I gained more knowledge in Search Engine Optimisation for my Internet Marketing, I have also helped some of my friends to get started on their Internet Marketing by setting up the necessary accounts. It is a really good experience for me, as only by helping others and getting feedback from them, can you learn where you should focus your energy in creating more value.
As part my growth and of my ever growing need to improve myself constantly, I will make sure that I am more efficient and productive in generating more value in my life and people around me. This can only been seen from the results that I will achieve from laying down my mission & vision > long-term goals > short-term goals > weekly goals > daily goals, and doing whatever it takes to achieve them despite any obstacles.
Success & Achievements for This week:
- Attended Asia Internet Congress 2008
- Watched Fabian Lim's SEO DVD - 1st Round
- Established a very basic Startup Guide for my Internet Marketing Group (Members only)
- Established the necessary Mailing list and Members Access on my Blog.
- Spent time with my wife and family
- Celebrated my brother-in-law's Birthday
- Increased my Financial Freedom Account(FFA)
- Planned for what to do next for my IM Group
Tentative Plan for my Internet Marketing Group:
- Create a instuctional video on setting up their blog (to help on clearing the technical part)
- Create Agenda for next meeting, Goal setting etc. (will need more feedback from the group)
Before I end off, I want to leave you all a quote
"Your "personal integrity account" reflects the amount of trust you have in yourself. When you consistently make and keep commitments to yourself, you invest in this account and increase your self-confidence. A high balance in your account is a great source of strength and security. Frequent withdrawals reduce your ability to set and achieve meaningful goals because your trust in yourself is love."
- The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People
